Grief is one of the most difficult emotions anyone can face. As Christians, we are not promised a life free of pain.
However, we are promised that God will be with us through every sorrow.
The Bible gives us many words of comfort when we are grieving.
One of the most comforting verses comes from the book of Psalms:
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18)
This verse reminds us that God does not ignore our pain. He sees every tear and stays near to us when we are hurting.
What Does the Bible Say About Grief?
Grief appears many times in Scripture. Even Jesus, the Son of God, felt sorrow and wept.
When His friend Lazarus died, Jesus cried even though He knew He would raise Lazarus from the dead.
“Jesus wept.” (John 11:35)
This short verse shows us that grieving is not wrong or weak. It is a natural response to loss.
The Bible teaches us that God cares deeply for His children.
He knows our sadness and walks beside us through every season.
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3)
This means that God is not far away when we are grieving. He is actively bringing comfort, even when we cannot feel it yet.
Let’s look at how Christians can face grief with God’s help.
Pray Honestly and Often
When grief hits, it can be hard to find the words to pray. Sometimes all we can do is cry or sit in silence.
God understands our pain even when we do not speak.
“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.” (Romans 8:26)
We do not have to pretend to be strong in front of God.
He wants us to come to Him with all our pain, questions, and tears. Prayer can be short or long.
It can be spoken out loud or silently in our hearts.
Stay in the Word of God
During times of sorrow, the Bible becomes a source of strength.
It reminds us of God’s promises when everything else feels shaken.
Reading just a few verses each day can bring peace to a hurting heart.
“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” (Psalm 119:105)
Even when nothing makes sense, God’s Word can steady our minds.
It reminds us that God is still in control, even in loss.
Accept Help from Others
Grief can make us want to be alone, but we are not meant to suffer in silence.
The church is a family, and we are called to carry each other’s burdens.
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
Accepting help is not a sign of weakness. It is a way to let God work through other people to care for us.
Friends, pastors, and counselors can bring comfort during these times.
Remember the Hope We Have
As Christians, we believe that death is not the end.
We trust that there is life after this one for those who believe in Jesus.
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain.” (Revelation 21:4)
This promise gives us hope even in our darkest moments. We mourn, but not without hope.
We grieve with the knowledge that one day, all sorrow will end.
Take It One Day at a Time
Grief does not go away quickly. It is a process that takes time, and each person’s journey is different.
Some days will feel heavier than others and that is okay. Jesus told us not to worry about tomorrow.
“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” (Matthew 6:34)
Take small steps each day. Let God’s love carry you through.